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Save the Date:
CUB Annual Retreat 2015
October 23-25, Carlsbad, CA


National Adoption Awareness Month
Talking Points:

  • Adoption begins in tragedy, not joy.
  • Birthfamilies are part of everyone's adoption story. Without a birthfamily, there is no adoption, just family.
  • This month was created to help find permenant loving homes for children in foster care.

Spotlight Article
Liberal Hypocrisy in Adoption

Spotlight Song

For the Mothers


News & Notes

The Most Important Adoption List Ever
Posted October 01, 2014

This is it folks! The information on this list validates what so many of us know already. Bookmark this link. Share it today! Thank you Laurie Garland. Thank you thank you thank you.

CUB Name Fun
Posted July 18, 2014

The birthparent word started out controversial because birthparents wanted a name that was better than biological parent. The adoption industry people fought it and then, they took it from us and used it against us. AND NOW we fight over it. Let's get over it already and have some fun! "CUB we get it" is open to suggestions. Have a variant on the name? Send it along today! Send it to: editor@cubirthparents.org

Support Groups

CUB provides support for all family members separated by adoption; resources to help prevent unnecessary family separations; education about the life-long impact on all who are affected by adoption; and advocates for fair and ethical adoption laws, policies, and practices.

A temporary lack of resources – not a lack of love – is often the reason birthparents surrender their parental rights. If parents are unable to raise their children, they should have a say in who will. Denying loving parents knowledge of their children, even when those children become adults, is a cruel and unnecessary punishment that causes suffering for all. A severing of parental rights does not cut off a parent’s love.